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Make your 2013 useful and pleasant? A list of 40 do & don't for 2013.

There is practice in our society to make new year resolution every year on eve of new year to make the coming year a pleasant year. On 31 Dec every we evaluate our resolutions and judge it that how much we worked to make our resolution successful and achieved.To help you in preparing  your new year resolution  Tips to make your new year resolution more meaningful is prepared.  we have prepared a list of 40  do & don't do. Please read and adopt if you find these resolutions matching with your personality. 
Tips for Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants, and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E’s — Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time for prayer and reflection
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2012.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day.
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
Tips for Personality:
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day —- and while you walk, smile.
11. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don’t have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don’t over do; keep your limits.
14. Don’t take yourself so seriously; no one else does.
15. Don’t waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake.
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don’t remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your present happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don’t hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won’t spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
Tips for Community service:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your family and friends will. Stay in touch.
Tips for new year resolution for improving Life style:
32. Do the right things.
33. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. Forgiveness heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, don’t take it for granted – embrace life.
39. Your inner most is always happy. So, be happy.
Last but not least:
40. Enjoy LIFE!

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Some Best tourist destinations in India for New year celebration- Daman

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A Portuguese enclave for 4 centuries and a half till the close of the colonial rule in 1961 . Captain Diogo De Mello the first Portuguese captain while on his way to Ormuz, met with a deadly cyclone and when he lost his all home , suddenly he found himself at Daman Coast. Daman was the battle ground  to oust the Portuguese and had witnessed many a wars waged against the alien power Till 1961 it was under colonian rule of Purtuguese, it got liberated on 19 Dec 1961 along with Goa  and become a part of India. Till 1987 it was an union territory along with Goa but Goa got statehood in 1987 and Daman & Diu remain under direct control of Government of India as an union territory

Location: Daman is capital district of union territory of  Daman & Diu is surrounded by Valsad District of Gujrat State and Thane District of Maharashtra two sides by Arabian Sea. Daman is separated in Two parts Nani Daman and Moti Daman by river Daman Ganga. The nearest railway station is Vapi which  on main  railway rout of Mumbai- Ahemdabad and Mumbai- Delhi where most of the main trains like August Kranti Rajdhani, Mumbai- Ahemdabad Satabdi express  stops here. It is 12 Kms away from Daman. 

Climate:  Daman has a very pleasant climate through out of year. Daman is know for its breezing cool air coming from Arabian Sea. The maximum temperature is 39 Degree centigrade and minimum is 11 degree centigrade. The average annual rain fall is 1687 mm. The best time to tour Daman is in between September to May but even Monsoon time is also best to enjoy rain related entertainment. 

Culture:  It is a melting point where race, cast , creed and culture met and mix to bring a multicultural and multicolored identity to this beautiful sea ashore city.The peaceful coexistence is the main identity of this multicultural city. Being surrounded by Gujarat and Maharashtra these both states have its impact of culture, languages and dress patterns of Daman. The main language of Daman is Gujrati but Hindi, English and Marathi are also spoken.

Tourist Attraction Places in Daman:

Jampore Beach
  • Jampore Beach: It is approx 3 Kms away from Moti Daman. It is a sandy beach which very suitable for swimming and playing water sport like rafting, etc. One can reach by auto-rickshaw  by  paying a minimal charge of Rs. 50-60/

Devka Beach

  • Devka Beach : This beach is also 3 or 3.5 Kms away from Nani Daman. It is a  very busy beach of Daman and One should be careful while swiming or doing rafting as there are some rocks inside sea. Due to shoping and a well spread garden near this beach this beach has special attraction for all the tourist who visit Daman. One can enjoy horse riding on the ashore of the beach
  • Daman is known for its old and big churches and these churches are very famous among the visitors..
    • Church of Bom Jesus which was built during the early days of Portuguese era. Construction started in 1559 and completed in 1603. This church is know for its architectural and  craftsmanship.
    •  Chapel of Our Lady of Rosary.
    •  Church of our lady of Remedies. 
    •   Church of Our Lady Angustias
  •  Other tourist attractions are
    • Mirasole resort and  water park
    • Vaibhav Water Park
    • Daman Ganga Tourist Complex
    • Fort of St, Jerome
    • Moti Daman Fort
    • Light House
  • Some of the best hotels of Daman
    • Hotel Miramar
    • Hotel Sovereign
    • Hotel Grukripa
    • Hotel Cidade de Daman
    • Hotel Prince Park
    • Hotel Brighton
    • Hotel Saikripa
    • Hotel Darya darshan
House to Reach Daman:   Daman have an airport which is control by India Coast Guard so no daily civil flight operates from  Daman but occasionally charted Flights are permitted on payment of   landing fee. As Daman is 170 Kms from Mumbai and 100 kms from Surat so one can come by flight upto Mumbai or surat and from Mumbai/Surat there are luxury buses and tourist cab also run between Mumbai - Daman, Surat - Daman. The nearest railway station for Daman is Vapi which 12 Kms away from main city of Daman. as Vapi is an important industrial city of Gujarat state so most of the trains which are running between Mumbai- Ahemdabad  and Mumbai- Delhi are stops here. it is only 2.30 hrs rail journey from Mumbai. 1.5. hrs from Surat, 3 hrs from Baroda and 5 Hrs from Ahmadabad. Daman have Bus connectivity from Mumbai, Nasik and all major cities of Gujarat state so there is no problem in reaching Daman. As Daman is very famous tourist destination in this region, one should book his ticket well in advance otherwise it is very difficult to get rail  reservation in short time.

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Some Best tourist destinations in India for New year celebration?- Diu

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I have visited many regions of India as a tourist or in connection with of service requirement and during these visit I have found some of places are very beautiful with less crowd so it is very cool, calm and peaceful and  very suitable for a new year celebration or  for cool family holiday and in this series the first name come in my mind is " Diu Island" The island of Breeze, Beauty and Serenity 


Why one should support Mulayam Singh this time?

आजादी के बाद से जितनी भी सरकारे आई उन सब ने जो हम लोगो को समानता का अधिकारी संविधान ने दिया था उसका अवहेलना करते हुवे आपने वोट के लिए एस सी /एस टी के अंदर एक अभिजात्य वर्ग बनाया हम लोगो के अधिकारों को छीन कर उन लोगो को देदिया. और उसका कारन उनका कहना है की  ए लोग सदियों से सताए हुवे है  इस लिए इन्हें अरक्षण देना चाहिए लेकिन मै पूछना चाहता हू की किसने इन लोगो को सताया क्या वो ब्राह्मण लोगो ने सताया जो पहले भी घर घर घूम कर आपना पेट पलते थे और आज भी उनकी हालत में कोई सुधर नहीं आया या उस गरीब क्षत्रिय ने जो आपने घर चलने और पेट पलने के लिए उस समय भी सैनिक का नौकरी करता था और जान  देता था और आज भी बहुत से ऐसे ही है. नहीं इनलोगों ने नहीं सताया, सत्य तो ए है की, इन जो गरीब पिछड़े लोगो है उनको उन जयचंदों ने सताया जो पहले मुगलों और अंग्रेजो के साथ रह कर देश को बेचा और आज ओ लोग सरकार के साथ मिलकर दलाली कर के देश को बेच रहे है!

हम आराक्षंण के खिलाफ नहीं हैआरक्षण  होना बहुत जरुरी है लेकिंग जिस रूप में आज अरक्षण है उससे अनसुचित जाती या जनजाति का भला नहीं होने वाला है इससे तो इनलोगों के बिच एक अभिजात्य वर्ग खड़ा हो रहा है जो इसने इनकी जर जमींन को खरीद कर इन गरीब लोगो को और गरीब बना रहा है और सता के साथ मिलकर वोट की राजनीती कर रहा है!
गरीब के लिए कोई जाती और धर्म नहीं होता है उसका पेट ही जात है और पेट ही धर्म हो जाता है क्यों की ओ हमेश इसी के बारे में सोचते राहत है और जाती, धर्म सब भूल जाता है !  आरक्षण जरुर हो लेकिन लेकिंग जाती धर्म के नाम पे नहीं  केवल जरुरत मंद लोगो के लिए हो ! जो अनसुचित जाती या जनजाति के धनि लोग है जिनके बच्चे कॉन्वेंट और पब्लिक स्कूल में पढ रहे है उनको ए आरक्षण क्यों दिया जाय! किस चीज के अधार पर  ए जो मुख्यमंत्री या केन्द्रीय मंत्री रह चुके लोगो के बच्चो के आरक्षण मिला रहा है और क्यों? कुछ साल पहले ए अखबार में खबर आया था   की आरक्षण के कारन चार भाइयो का नियुक्ति आई पि एस में हो गयी ऐसे क्यों, क्यों नहीं तीन दूसरे गरीब जो अनुसूचित जाती या जनजाति के थे उनको दिया गया , हम ऐसे अरक्षण का विरोध करते है ! आरक्षण का मतलब समानता होना चैहिये बदला लेना नहीं अगर बदला लेना है तो बोल कर ले, कानून का सहारा क्यों लेना है. क्या आज जो गली गली ठोकर खा रहा है ओ सामान्य जाती के लोग इण अनुसूचित जाती और जनजाति के लोगो को सताया है नहीं जो सताया है  ओ आज भी बतानुकुलित गाड़ी में घूमता है उसको आज भी   नौकरी की जरुरत नहीं ओ आज भी आपने घरों पे १०-१५ आदमीयो को गुलाम बना के रखता है! कल एक निउज  चनेल पे देखा कहा जरा था की हमें हमारे सख्या के अनुसार आरक्षण दिया जाय , क्यों आप अपनी संख्या बढ़ाते रहेंगे और दूसरों से बोलेगें की हमे हमारी संख्या के अनुसार अरक्षण दिया जाय. क्यों सरकार अरक्षण के ६५ सालो में असफल होने का इमेंदारी से आकलन करती है, क्यों आरक्षण के बल बे कुछ लोगो ने और आपने गरीब भाइयो का हक मार कर आसमान में चढ गए और जिनको वास्तव में आरक्षण का जरूरत था उन्हें नहीं मिला. आरक्षण देना है तो रोजगार में क्यों दे रहे है आप पढाई में दीजिए जो शिक्षा का अधिकार बिल लाए है उसे और सख्त बनाकर लागु कीजिये जिससे गरीबो के बच्चे भी अच्छी से अच्छी सिखा पा सके और सभी के साथ नौकरी के लिए मुकाबला कार सके. अगर एक बच्चा कॉन्वेंट या पब्लिक स्कूल में पढ़ रहा है तो उसको की आधार पे आप अरक्षण दे रहे जब की उसको पढाई की पूरी सहूलियत दी गयी फिर भी ओ नहीं पढ़ा तो इसमें किसका दोष है.
हमे मुलायम सिंह का सहयोग क्यों करना चाहिए? मुलायम सिंह को अगर हम सहयोग करते है तो हमे मालूम है की ओ एक ग्रुप खड़ा करदेंगे सामान्य वर्ग का जो अभी बिखरा हुवा है अगर एक बार ए सामान्य जाती के लोग एक होगये तो फिर सरकार किसि का भी हो आरक्षण के ए रुरेखा जरुर बदलेगा. मुलायम सिंह में ए ग्रुप खड़ा करने की ताकत है क्यों की देखिये आजादी के बाद कोई भी पार्टी मुस्लामो की हित का बात नहीं करता थी ए मुलायम सिंह यादव ही है जिन्होंने इनलोगों को इकट्टा किया और आज चाहे बीजेपी हो कांग्रेस हो सब आपने चुनाव घोषणा पात्र में इनलोगों के बारे में बिशेष उलेख्य करते है ! इस लिए हमे मुलायम सिंह के ऊपर विश्वास करना चाहिए और अपने भविष्य के लिए उनके साथ एक जुट होकर खड़ा होना चाहिए. ए आप लोग सोच लो धर्म कुछ नहीं देगा लेकिन आरक्षण बहुत कुछ लेलेगा.


Why Nitish Kumar's graph is falling down falling down?

A small piece of antiseptic bandages also brings respite from pain of any wound but that does make a nursing assistance  to compare himself with a qualified doctor and do not exploit the other option for better treatment  to  the patient  by a qualify doctor. Same things happened to the people of Bihar when they got the Nitish led NDA government elected in 2005. The first term of Nitish government was acted just like an antiseptic bandage and brought some respite from the pain given by 15 years wound of Laooji and family government . But after seeing little respite among Biharis Nitish kumar started thinking that he got the right medicine of Bihar problems and but see the present turmoil in Bihar and particularly in Nitish Kumar rallies   the judgment for Bihar problems by Nitish Kumar is proved to be wrong.
In my opinion these are some cause for his failure:
1. Complacent: He developed high degree of complacent,and started ignoring the senior leaders. This trend was started first by not giving ticket to Late Digvijay Singh, and  Mr. George Fernandez who the the founder member JD(U) which was earlier known as "Samta Party" and ignoring and rejecting senior leaders are still continue and Sarad Yadav still remain in party because he speaks Nitish language. other that Nitish Kuamr and Sharad Yadav who is there in JD(U), no one who ever said anything against Nitsh Kumar has been show door..
2NDA India Signing syndromes.He got infected by  NDA India Signing syndromes and after getting  some applause from electronics and print media, he mistook  and taken Bihar people granted, started thinking that he got right kind of medicine for Bihar's problems. He started seeing the media presented and graphed Bihar instead of seeing real picture of Bihar. Still Bihar is lacking in many field but his Bihar signing  syndrome is preventing him to see.
3.Yekla Chalo Principle: He runs a coalition government but he always try to go alone in all policy matter , he never takes his coalition partner in confidence on policy decision and that so he did not get full hearten support from his coalition partner. Recent turmoil which were happened in his rallies at most of the placeere that was even supported by his coalition partner.
4. Rampant Corruption: The Bihar people are fed up with rampant corruption and they do not have any remedy and  even the assurances given by CM Nitish Kumar in his Janta darbar is not getting timely compliance so people lost hope.
5.Divide and rule policy:  After assuming power he created lots many sub-caste by dividing a caste specially  in Dalits which also created fear among Dalits that he is just trying to make them strength-wise weak.

6.Vote Bank Appeasement policy: He does less but talks much, and in his lips work he always talked about a particular community for vote bank appeasement and other communities people started a feeling of neglect  His statement that he can give support to any party which give fund for Bihar that also make BJP to remain cautious and never gave full support to his any action.

7. Insensitive toward people problems:  During his recent concluded Adhikar rally when contract teachers were raised their problem for not getting timely salary instead of looking in the plight of teachers to told in arrogant and threatening note that he will not do any thing which show his in-sensitiveness towards people problems.

After all this Biharis are once again founding them self on cross road where they  should go, when they recalling the Laloo ji era they feel nothing is better that some thing, Nitish Kumar is not nothing but he is something and that so people of Bihar still go with him not with Laloo ji,

Alone a net of signing road is  not going to make Bihar developed , Bihar still lacking behind on  many social index like education, sanitation, health, electricity, poverty etc. to tackle these problems, he needs cooperation and support from all corner of society but he does not believe in taking support from others. Recently concluded Adhikar rally at Gandhi Maidan Patna, he talked about that, this rally is for pride of Bihar but he did not call any other political parties along him to make a strong case before central government to get special status for Bihar. It seems he always bothers about his own popularity, but the current scenario in Bihar is telling something else either he change his way of working or people will change him in next election.


Who is this man of the Millennium?

We all run to earn, our younger generation running for six figures salary, media running for TRP and other running to survive their inflation dominated life  and in between these race we either miss or forget our real hero  or  inspiring personality. 
Today I read an article published in The Hindu News Paper the article has compel me to let spread the real story of this real hero.
He worked as a Librarian at the Kumarkurupara Arts College at Srivaikuntam in Tuticorin district, for 35 years and every month in his 35 years service he donated entire salary for poor needy people. After donating his salary he worked in a hotel as a server to meet his own need. he has contributed all his salary, pension benefits and ancestral property to social welfare .He donated his entire pension, amount Rs 10 lakh to needy. He donated his entire life earning for noble social cause. He has also come forward to donate his body and eyes to a Medical College.
The Union Government has acclaimed him as `The Best Librarian in India'. He has also been chosen as `one of the top ten librarians of the world'. The International Biographical Centre, Cambridge, has honoured him as `one of the noblest of the world', while the United Nations Organisation adjudged him as one of the Outstanding People of the 20th Century'. An American organisation has also selected him as the `Man of the Millennium and he received a sum of Rs. 30 crore as award money that also he donated for social cause.
 Yes I am Talking about the real gem of India Mr. P  Kalyanasundaram. Simplicity, humbleness and keenness to serve the needy is his identity. He Born in August 1953 at Melakarivelamkulam in Tirunelveli district. He lost his father in very young age and his mother inspired him to work for poor and weaker section of society. His social service in not confined to Tamil Nadu only but many otheer parts of India, during earth quake he helped  the victims of  Gujarat and Maharashtra . 
Photo: The Hindu
He is not only works for poor but he is a true Rashtra bhakta because during 1962 Indo-China war he donated gold chain to then Chief minister of Tamil Nadu Kamraj for war fund.
        Our media and news papers are running behind the reel hero and not bothering to spread the stories of real heroes like Mr P Kalyansunram. Media and news paper will ready to show the program  on which is the cheap and best mobile caller tone or where one can get cheap movies ticket but they will not write or show the stories which have long and cascading effect on betterment of society,  If such stories of real heroes has been shown  on TV or write in News papers then it will give immense affect in society . 


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